My new Favourite- Zuhair Murad !!!

Zuhair Murad's fall 2013 collection was the first thing that I saw when I opened my system today morning and man! did it not made my day? Oh it most certainly did.

It was a refreshment from fall collections I have been following, the full coats and loose pants. Not that I don't like them, I may end up wearing the same by the end of the year but I like femininity over designer sweats.

No doubt Zuhair is a red carpet favorite. His clothes makes a girl feel like a superstar herself. 

 The peek-a-boo sort of sheer details of gown and fluidity of the fabrics did amaze me. 

And when I hoped this collection not to be all blacks and blues, it was actually not. There were prints which made me remind Robert Cavalli's SS13 collection.

 
















But of all the fabulous in this fabulous collection, my personal favorites are the combination of two most gorgeous trends of this year. Ladies and gentlemen....Give the way to - Lace and leather !!!!!
PURE LOVE !!

I wish I will wear Zuhair Murad one day. Till then, I am writing love songs for his clothes :D

will never cheat...so i say

there can never be safe time to cheat upon your boyfrind of several years but what do you do when you certainly cant ignore that sexual drive & that cute boy who's available . well, if not sex ...a kiss may be. what if , your boyfriend cannot be with you for months. can't we girls deserve just a kiss may be...for the distance sake ? is it too guilted crime to do so ? or it is just the marriage that serves as a boundation which even stops us to think about such things ?.
i will be honest, nobody can stop thinking about that sexy girl or boy apart from their mates whom they have fantasized about one or the other time. come on, fantasy is no crime . but it is not fair to create a reality over a fantasy. married or unmarried , infidelity is infidelity. there's no excuse to it and it hurts bad when the other person comes to know about it . oh ! it hurts like hell. i cant even imagine myself going through that misery . i will kill my boyfriend the day he's caught. what will i do to myself if i cheated is another thing...lolzz.
there's one other side to this debate too... you are committed but still you are free , right ? this is your life and you can live the way you want. he doesnt have to know about your mischievious conquests. obviously you cant torture yourself over a relationship. and as miranda says' its nothing boys havent been doing from centuries'. we dont have to be guilty, we just have to date like men. and life would be very easy. we girls will have everything- fancy clothes, trendy shoes, a loyal boyfrined and a cheating ass.
yes, i am being judgemental about infidels. if i wont like my boyfriend to do it, i would stop myself from this sin at any cost.
find ways gals.....not trouble.
thats all i have to say...

go razzle-dazzle !!!!

had a fight with boyfriend ? had a bad hair day ? not a very satisfying day at job ?

if u had even one of these situations then the nature gives you a free pass to let your hair down .
dont sit at home, call your speed dial friends, take a nice soothing bath, get in your best attire
, go on drinks with your friends or just have a dance with some cute nice stranger at the disc.
and to give the not-so-good-day a perfect ending, just bling yourself up a bit. by blinging i meant having some shine on your body.  you do it and mark my words you're gonna be a shining beacon of the party.and not to mention how easy it is to add a bling to your whole ensemble....you can add a pinch of it as in accessories or you can go outta bounds by wearing a wholesome sequenced dress.now it can be a bit tricky here. you have to...have to ..have to make sure that you wont go overboard with the statement and end up luking like a shiny disco ball...i am sure even daft punk wont like it.

so, lets discuss on the ways to get yourself illuminated.....
 
1.) that fab dress....
   

this kind of dresses surely can get even the most party hating people into the mood.

its a must-have peice in the wardrobe. and it especially comes handy when you're not in the mood of using much of brains into what-to-wear. team it up with nice bracelet and remember to keep every thing else on your body  like accessories,makeup,shoes subtle. you don't want to take away the spotlight from the dress.  

2.) top it up...or lower it down..

well, these pictures say it all, do i need to make my point here ?

team your twinkling top with your jeans or a high waisted skirt..they'll rock the eyes of the lookers. i lean on this look almost evrytime i go out as it gives me freedom to experiment with almost all the garments of my wardrobe. just one warning - be careful with mix'n'match.

3.)perks of the accessories....

 

don't wanna wear the shine so much ? then these are the things for you. i just luve that blue belt for its uniqueness, its a sure eyecatcher. though i personally dont like the bags but its you who we are discussing here...so you want them ? go ahead and make a statement.....usual stuff usually go unnoticed....be a bit different in your own way. club the twinkles with your dress if you want evrybody twinkling on you at the club...

4.) the shoes....

my fav part's here.....if you don't wanna do any of the above things written, not a problem,

you can try these truly fabulous shoes . i feel like a princess when i wear good shoes,i hope many of my fellow show lovers would agree with me on that.

no rules for them....just one...don't wear them with an already sequenced dress or you'll just do what i've been telling you not to since start.

go on...try any one of these ...m sure these would take care of rest of the week...

   
  

the ghost of mighty egoism...

ego is for male what charm is to women.....it may not be the universal truth or saying but that was certainly some thing i believed in sum minutes ago. i always thought men as the egoistic pigs who respects this pet of theirs more than us. i never knew or seen any girl having such egos or atleast i pretended i dint see......least of all i could just peek into mirror if i had to look at dat very girl around me who's filled with red,hot male ego.
it all started this afternoon......
i am a big big fan of sex & the city, dat i feel like a l'il carrie myself ,just that i dont have such money to buy manalo blahniks. so, its been long since i've been watching that sitcom n i notice much things about it, the clothes,the makeup,the shoe( especially coz evn i m a big shoe freak ) & the girls. one thing specifically was noted that these girls never hesitated in asking the guy come back to dem to the level that they looked to me like they are begging ( no offences,but seriously) .
 poor my boyfriend , never recieved such kind behaviour from me. the rarest of rare event of me prodding ( even now not begging ) him  was for the dates n that too i wont repeat the thing if he said a single no.
so i watched the episode where carrie asks eden to take her back n give their relationship a second shot n yet again i was surprised by the carrie's lack of self respect. only later when i called my boyfriend n heard his voice this reality struck me really bad, that its not carrie who's being unreasonable ...its me.
its not lack of self respect, its just too much love .i never experienced that side of love or lets say never let my heart have a say in this self respect department. it seems my fight to save my respect has turned into a battle of egos where both my bfs n my egos clash daily  n believe me you would never want that to happen.
i guess love should be given a second chance.
i want ego to loose the battle. ego's for boys n noneother's friend, atleast not mine...no...never.
let him baby this l'il pet of his n i can be happy with my charm n love forever....

y am i libran ?

gawd ! being libran is not at all easy. its like searching whole life for a balanced life which we are unable to balance. i feel like all the concious 15 years of mine ( 5 years counting to be the toddler) are gone in trying to balance the two opposites of me - the good & the bad.  i am in the middle of a  river where on one shore is one me who wants to go out there and have a crazy time of my life and the other one is trying to be faithful to her boyfriend bcoz she loves him so much. my mind resides on one corner and my heart on the other and here i m , tryin to get them both involved in each other. i totally think my mind and heart should date each other. this way they will have their problems of their own & will leave me alone to take my own decisions.
my love , my darling is not comfortable with me hanging around with my friends ,partying, drinking, dancing n all .on the other hand, i find my life useless without these guys. everytime i make a plan n i asks him, then he's all fine n supporting but i get to realise how much he hates my partying whenever we have a fight. that is a time when he blurps it all on my face the old rotten story of how i do whatever i want without caring what he feels about it. till now the question in my mind was that can i balance the both- the fun and the love ? but as time passed on by n i got enlightened by the fact that my life will be a bowl of mashed potatoes without any salt or sweet if dont choose between the two, i have a new question to ask that do i love him so much that i can leave all my frens- male n female ( m nt evn allowed meet my male counterparts ) ? will he be the enough cake to fill my stomach ? i think that i sould ask him this one - can he play the roles of evry person i'll leave for him  just to satisfy his possesiveness ? too many questions huh ?
well, it'd be unfair not to consider his point in whole this confusion part . the reason behind all of this, as he confesses, is that he's too protective about me. this sentence as a whole is so suffocating for me let alone him doing this in action. i love protective guys, in fact, who doesnt but its certainly not a libran trait to let him dictate what i should do and what i dont. n if he shows his mighty understnading towards it then he should stop making mr feel guilty as to y i go out with my frens .
so my thinking genes starts to work here n so do my great confusion of the year - what way i should continue being his dream girlfrind - by unleashing the head-over-heels in love part of me, being honest to him n leaving my frens ( male n female) alone in this cruel world of parties or jumping on the mind corner of the room, have a gud time with my frens n keep all my crazy time locked in the confidential folder so that he could blissfully live in ignorance.
the choice remains...................................................

plum chum !

purple is a biggie color of the season...true eclectic in nature, a signature royalty at one face n a hint of punk on the other.

the picture here is of marc jacobs for fall winter 2009.he used the color in his collection in many forms . from day glow screaming capes to mettallic brocade minis. in prints or allover, the color shines up to you withour blinding the eyes.

its a color used in numerous variants .its everything but mute.

zac posen too recommends the color for this fall winter. i find purple very intriguing.for me , a certain article is shoppable if its purple ...other details comes later.not only me but my most of the buddeies are purplemaniacs. i am sure most of the girls and a few boys( who can carry this color) agrees with this puppy love of mine ....isnt it ?

anyone who hates the color has their own taste but even if u loathe the color you cant deny the fact that this amore color stands out. if you dont believe me then try it out. this amore color is my daysaver,datesaver & moodsaver color.

guess wat ? even wen i am writing this , i am wearing purple ...gawd ipsa ! grow up !

the one...

this concept of having that ' one ' in our lives is very overhyped. is there actually a person worth waiting for ? or worth saving virginity for ???
here in india, that person is alwys the husband, THE GREAT INDIAN HUSBANDS who are eager to fuck evry oder gal and in return demands for a virgin bride. y dont they ask themselves from where are these brides coming from? its the same fuck pool in which you take bath evryday. so y to expect something which evn you cant deliver ?
commitment is the easiest tool of a fool...dats the philosophy of modern romeo. shakespeare darling, none reads you except wen dere's a compulsion or wen dere r people like me . american pie interests us more.

which girls these are i think i know
their homes is in the neighbour though
her parents will not see me stopping there
to watch dat gal fill up wid my bro

the girls are lovely,fair & deep
but i have no promises to keep,
many to deflower before i sleep,
many to deflower before i sleep.

sorry,robert frost but no offences meant....m nt mocking you but the boys...